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What is a strap-on?
A strap-on (also called a strap-on dildo or harness dildo) is a sex toy that consists of two parts: a harness and a dildo or vibrator. The harness is a belt, brief or harness worn around the hips or waist, to which the dildo is attached. The purpose of this system is to allow penetration (vaginal, anal or oral) without using your hands, giving the wearer complete freedom of movement.
Who is it for and how is it used?
Although a strap-on is often associated with lesbian couples, it is suitable for everyone regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
- Female couples: Women use the strap-on to penetrate a female partner vaginally or anally. It helps to recreate the “filled” feeling of penetration and can create a deeper sense of intimacy.
- Heterosexual couples (pegging): More and more women use a strap-on to anally penetrate their male partner. This is called “pegging” and often revolves around role reversal (power exchange) and stimulating the prostate (the male G-spot) for intense pleasure.
- Men (hollow dildos): There are special hollow dildos that men can wear over their own penis. These are used as support in case of erection difficulties, to increase stamina, or simply as an extension for more length and girth.
- Lovers of power play: Within BDSM and role play, the strap-on is an essential tool for dominance. It allows the wearer to literally take control, adding an exciting psychological dimension to the experience for both partners.
What types and variations exist?
Because preferences and bodies vary, there is a wide range of models available. Your choice depends on who is wearing it, the desired stimulation and ease of use. These are the most important variations:
- Classic Harness Systems (with O-rings): The most versatile option. It consists of a harness with one or two rings that allow you to attach different dildos. You can swap out the dildo whenever you want a different size or texture without needing a new harness.
- Strapless Strap-ons: Ideal if you don’t want to wear a harness. This model stays in place by using the wearer’s pelvic muscles. One end is inserted into the wearer (vaginally or anally), while the other end is used to penetrate the partner.
- Hollow Dildos (Sleeves): Designed specifically for men or anyone with a penis. The dildo is hollow inside and slides over the penis (erect or flaccid). It’s often used as an extension, for extra girth, or as support for erection difficulties.
- Double Dildos: These models offer simultaneous pleasure for both partners.
For the wearer: Many include a vibrator or internal dildo section for extra vaginal or anal stimulation.
Double penetration: Some harnesses have two rings so two dildos can be attached, allowing both vaginal and anal penetration at the same time. - Dildos with Suction Cup: Many standalone dildos include a strong suction cup. They fit in a harness (with the right size), but can also be used on any flat surface for solo play.
- Alternative Positions: Besides standard hip harnesses, there are unique designs like head harnesses for more creative positions.
Tips for a better experience
Using a strap-on can take some getting used to. Good preparation, the right fit and the right products can greatly improve the experience.
1. The right fit & getting comfortable
A well-fitted harness is essential for both control and comfort.
- The One-Finger Rule: A harness fits correctly when exactly one finger slips easily between the strap and your body. Two fingers = too loose; none = too tight.
- Practice: Beginners should first wear the harness and dildo alone to get used to the weight and movement.
2. Ultra-realistic with Creamy Glide & Squirting Dildos
Since silicone dildos don’t self-lubricate, lube is essential. For the most realistic experience, this combo is recommended:
- Visual realism: Creamy Glide is a lubricant developed to mimic the color and creamy texture of real semen.
- The “squirting” experience: For the ultimate effect, combine it with a squirting dildo. These allow you to release fake cum during climax, creating a highly realistic experience.
3. Strap-On-Me and Compatibility
If you're looking for ease of use and high quality, the products from Strap-On-Me are definitely for you.
- Full compatibility: A major advantage of this brand is that all products within the collection fit together seamlessly. The harnesses and dildos are designed as a unified system, so you never have to worry about parts not matching. You can safely mix and match within this brand without issues with sizes or fittings.
- Comfort: Made from high-quality, body-safe silicone, these products offer excellent comfort and even options for hands-free use.
4. Hygiene and Safety
- The Golden Rule: Never switch directly from anal to vaginal penetration without thoroughly cleaning the dildo to prevent infections.
- Lubricant: Always use water-based lubricant with silicone toys, as oil or silicone-based lubes can damage the material.
Frequently Asked Questions About Strap-ons
What is the difference between a strap-on and a harness?
A “strap-on” usually refers to the complete set: the harness and the dildo. The “harness” specifically refers to the straps, belt or briefs used to attach the dildo to your body.
How do I know which harness size I need?
Most harnesses are widely adjustable. To check the fit, use the “One-Finger Check”: exactly one finger should slide easily between the strap and your body. Two fingers means too loose; none means too tight.
Can I switch the dildo in my harness?
Yes. Most O-ring harnesses allow you to swap dildos, as long as the new one has a flared base or suction cup so it doesn’t slip through. Make sure the O-ring diameter matches the dildo.
Are strap-ons suitable for men?
Absolutely. There are specific hollow dildos that are worn over the penis. They are ideal as an extension, for extra girth or as support for erection difficulties.
How do I clean my strap-on?
Hygiene is essential. Clean the dildo before and after each use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Leather harnesses require special leather care; fabric harnesses can sometimes be machine-washed depending on the care instructions.
Important: Never switch directly from anal to vaginal penetration without thoroughly cleaning the dildo.
Buy Strap-ons: Safe & Discreet at NovusEros
Ready to take control? Buying a strap-on is the key to new, exciting roleplay. At NovusEros, your safety comes first: we offer only premium brands such as the innovative Strap-On-Me collection. Your order is shipped completely anonymously in neutral packaging.
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What is a strap-on?
A strap-on (also called a strap-on dildo or harness dildo) is a sex toy that consists of two parts: a harness and a dildo or vibrator. The harness is a belt, brief or harness worn around the hips or waist, to which the dildo is attached. The purpose of this system is to allow penetration (vaginal, anal or oral) without using your hands, giving the wearer complete freedom of movement.
Who is it for and how is it used?
Although a strap-on is often associated with lesbian couples, it is suitable for everyone regardless of gender or sexual orientation.
- Female couples: Women use the strap-on to penetrate a female partner vaginally or anally. It helps to recreate the “filled” feeling of penetration and can create a deeper sense of intimacy.
- Heterosexual couples (pegging): More and more women use a strap-on to anally penetrate their male partner. This is called “pegging” and often revolves around role reversal (power exchange) and stimulating the prostate (the male G-spot) for intense pleasure.
- Men (hollow dildos): There are special hollow dildos that men can wear over their own penis. These are used as support in case of erection difficulties, to increase stamina, or simply as an extension for more length and girth.
- Lovers of power play: Within BDSM and role play, the strap-on is an essential tool for dominance. It allows the wearer to literally take control, adding an exciting psychological dimension to the experience for both partners.
What types and variations exist?
Because preferences and bodies vary, there is a wide range of models available. Your choice depends on who is wearing it, the desired stimulation and ease of use. These are the most important variations:
- Classic Harness Systems (with O-rings): The most versatile option. It consists of a harness with one or two rings that allow you to attach different dildos. You can swap out the dildo whenever you want a different size or texture without needing a new harness.
- Strapless Strap-ons: Ideal if you don’t want to wear a harness. This model stays in place by using the wearer’s pelvic muscles. One end is inserted into the wearer (vaginally or anally), while the other end is used to penetrate the partner.
- Hollow Dildos (Sleeves): Designed specifically for men or anyone with a penis. The dildo is hollow inside and slides over the penis (erect or flaccid). It’s often used as an extension, for extra girth, or as support for erection difficulties.
- Double Dildos: These models offer simultaneous pleasure for both partners.
For the wearer: Many include a vibrator or internal dildo section for extra vaginal or anal stimulation.
Double penetration: Some harnesses have two rings so two dildos can be attached, allowing both vaginal and anal penetration at the same time. - Dildos with Suction Cup: Many standalone dildos include a strong suction cup. They fit in a harness (with the right size), but can also be used on any flat surface for solo play.
- Alternative Positions: Besides standard hip harnesses, there are unique designs like head harnesses for more creative positions.
Tips for a better experience
Using a strap-on can take some getting used to. Good preparation, the right fit and the right products can greatly improve the experience.
1. The right fit & getting comfortable
A well-fitted harness is essential for both control and comfort.
- The One-Finger Rule: A harness fits correctly when exactly one finger slips easily between the strap and your body. Two fingers = too loose; none = too tight.
- Practice: Beginners should first wear the harness and dildo alone to get used to the weight and movement.
2. Ultra-realistic with Creamy Glide & Squirting Dildos
Since silicone dildos don’t self-lubricate, lube is essential. For the most realistic experience, this combo is recommended:
- Visual realism: Creamy Glide is a lubricant developed to mimic the color and creamy texture of real semen.
- The “squirting” experience: For the ultimate effect, combine it with a squirting dildo. These allow you to release fake cum during climax, creating a highly realistic experience.
3. Strap-On-Me and Compatibility
If you're looking for ease of use and high quality, the products from Strap-On-Me are definitely for you.
- Full compatibility: A major advantage of this brand is that all products within the collection fit together seamlessly. The harnesses and dildos are designed as a unified system, so you never have to worry about parts not matching. You can safely mix and match within this brand without issues with sizes or fittings.
- Comfort: Made from high-quality, body-safe silicone, these products offer excellent comfort and even options for hands-free use.
4. Hygiene and Safety
- The Golden Rule: Never switch directly from anal to vaginal penetration without thoroughly cleaning the dildo to prevent infections.
- Lubricant: Always use water-based lubricant with silicone toys, as oil or silicone-based lubes can damage the material.
Frequently Asked Questions About Strap-ons
What is the difference between a strap-on and a harness?
A “strap-on” usually refers to the complete set: the harness and the dildo. The “harness” specifically refers to the straps, belt or briefs used to attach the dildo to your body.
How do I know which harness size I need?
Most harnesses are widely adjustable. To check the fit, use the “One-Finger Check”: exactly one finger should slide easily between the strap and your body. Two fingers means too loose; none means too tight.
Can I switch the dildo in my harness?
Yes. Most O-ring harnesses allow you to swap dildos, as long as the new one has a flared base or suction cup so it doesn’t slip through. Make sure the O-ring diameter matches the dildo.
Are strap-ons suitable for men?
Absolutely. There are specific hollow dildos that are worn over the penis. They are ideal as an extension, for extra girth or as support for erection difficulties.
How do I clean my strap-on?
Hygiene is essential. Clean the dildo before and after each use with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner. Leather harnesses require special leather care; fabric harnesses can sometimes be machine-washed depending on the care instructions.
Important: Never switch directly from anal to vaginal penetration without thoroughly cleaning the dildo.
Buy Strap-ons: Safe & Discreet at NovusEros
Ready to take control? Buying a strap-on is the key to new, exciting roleplay. At NovusEros, your safety comes first: we offer only premium brands such as the innovative Strap-On-Me collection. Your order is shipped completely anonymously in neutral packaging.
